I’d known for months that he was scared of growing up, he just wanted to stay a kid for the r est of his life. He always told me how he didn’t want to move out of his parent’s house because he didn’t want to have to look after himsel. He was scared of being an adult.I talked to him about this, and found out that the big reason for not wanting to be with me was this, he was scared of being committed when he was still so young, but that another reason was that he just didn’t think that I was the right person for me. He admitted that he does care about me A LOT and that he does still love me a little more than best friends. He WANTS to be best friends, and says that we were better off this way than being together. He said that even after a bit of time off from the relationship, he won’t want to get back together with me. Where can I find advice on how to make my ex boyfriend miss me?
But I know that he loves me, he admitted it, and he kept crying about it all. I honestly believe that he had scared himself so much in to thinking that he won’t be ‘free’ now because he found a relationship that was serious. I think that afte r talking so much about the future, that he was really looking forward to spending with me, that it finally hit home that he HAD something serious and it scared the life out of him.